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M still tryin to understand human psychology...

& many a time, i keep contradictin myself by

thinkin its too complex... :|

ThE LAugHTEr OF LifEtiME.

Scene: Prof. Roby giving his knowledge to few students in middle front of the class room before the viva. WE 3 as in Bande, vin n me sittin in corner front, we came coz we hadnt studied a word n thought of givin CG(The subject) a serious look.

NOW how serious can that be...

(NOTE: all the character above belong to the same class. i,e. we all r class mate.its ok you may be highly intrigued by prof. Roby. He is an altruist :D and he is at his peaks during viva ;) )

suddenly a Sound of OM!!!!!!!!!!!!! fills the room... n everybody in the class room seein us...
Ree: wat we 3 are tryin 2 concentrate.
Vin: Are we?
BAnde: (..) he is laughing ... ( you cant describe this laughter.. it is scary and dangerous enough to write here) i suppose you understand ..
roars of laughter... Dont know y... cont.

P.S. - i hope you remember the event because i dont... i only remember the laughter of lifetime... ;) :)

Facebook " how well do you know me?" quiz

ITs a fantastic quiz... and is definately FUN.. just try it 1's

NOw the fun lies there when your room mate to whom you have kept talkin n braggin abt things abt what u like and wat you dont, knows the least ( wat i was humored by was that she was just abt to tick the right answer and however while doin that she chose the misguidin option) heh! its ok vin... i think u know me too well thats y u couldnt fit me in 1 option... U rock!

well ma sis... natasha.. now i think that was impossible.. she had scored 100%!!! their were few ques to which the answers has to go wrong if that person knew me ;)!!! now thats wicked... but thats just game.. So this is the fault... wat she did was... go through he husbands profile play the quiz... get to know the answers... n then tick the right 1 frm her acc. but still i go with hey sis BINGO!!! u got a 100% cheersss... now give me party for that ;)

so u c... its JUST fun... no serious stuff!!!

cOmMUniCatiOn..!!!

U've spent years learning how to read & wirte, years learning how 2 speak. But wat abt listenin? If u want 2 interact effectively with me--(ur neighbor, ur boss,ur coworker, ur spouse,ur frnd)--u first need to understand me. And u cant do tht with technique alone. if i sense you're using some technique, i sense duplicity, manipulation. I wonder y u'r doin it, wat your motives r & i dont feel safe enough to open maself up to u.

If ur life runs hot and cold, if ur both caustic n kind & above all, if ur private performance doesnt square with you public performance it is vry hard for me to open up with you. Then, as much as i may want & even need to recieve your love and influence, i dont feel safe enough to expose ma opinions & experience & ma tender feelings. Who knows what will happen?

But unless i open up with you, unless u understand me and my unique situation and feelings, you wont know how to advise or counsel me.What you say is good & fine, but it doesn't quite pertains to me.

U may say u care abt n appreciate me. i desperately wanna believe tht.. but how can you appreciate me whn you dont even understand me? All i have are your words and i cant trust words.

I am too angry & defensive -- perhaps too guilty & afraid -- to b influenced even though inside i know i need what you could tell me but Unless u'r influenced by my uniqueness, i'm not gonna b influence by ur advice. So care 4 ppl who understands u n never lose thm!!!

---------- LINE

If u think its a perfect line
its time your thoughts need 2 be more magnified!
Everything just seems so fine
i wish it could be..but its alrite..!

m here to face this sight,
to see who'z frnd n who gives a real fight.
Cuz we dont fear n back bittin is no might
its on you in which direction u spread the light.

But what if it doesn't matter how hard i try..
Donchu worry we never give a cry.
may b its time for us to fly high,
cuz deep inside their is truth n no lies.

i know its not easy to satisfy,
but this gives me bright chance to modify,
this is how in the end i make it mine..
Now may b..its you turn to make a line...!

y did the rock star began dancing????

Wierd ques rite.........!!!!!
but c'mon i think u can find a much more wierd answer to it.
Comment..... lets c..... who is the real wierdo!!!

STRESS CAN BE A PERIL TO YOUR HEALTH

Just look around you........
how many people do u find taking tension about small things. well u may tell this human nature...but it is sure that if this habit is exaggerated...then a worst situation may occur which would be difficult to handle...n if handled after suffering can cause severe damages.

for instance, i was about to have electronics paper in few days i,e,5-6 days. i was all reluctant about my studies...i knew their were dayz n i would make ma way to electronics paper with all the preaperation needed...! but now i had hours....which did not allow me to play nor it did let me do mystudies properly...!

Now wat i started to do was-I started thinkin over my studies..what m i doing now..n questions like that creeped into my mind..which made my thoughts more violent n unbearable, dont know y may be due to pressure... n i bursted out in front of everybody...but m lucky to have ma frnds.... here i think what i have achieved.
They helped me in solving my problem and above all helped me to recognize that everybody is facing the same problem but only the intensity is differnt..!!!

Now i started controling my thoughts but it left somthing serious...
my back was aching like anything.. n ma head ...ha! it was in costant
pain for those 5 day....!!

but guess wad ...there was something good....i gave my electronics paper..
n it went well...i was happy..........!!! and at that moment i knew...the ONLY
thing i have to do right now is to stay happy...!!! :)
i hope u got the last line ...it means the most..!!
meanwhile stay healthy
stay happy!!
gud day